I used to be anxious about expressing my sexual being.
So I just stayed quiet; maybe the most I could get out of my throat was a little moan. Do you feel you aren’t confident enough to fully show your sexual expression?
But you just haven’t gotten to the point of spitting those thoughts and words out in a hands-on situation. For now be grateful for already having those thoughts.
Maybe you have a few fantasies but haven’t taken action on the dirty talk front yet?
Most of our communication doesn’t work via the words you use – body language, the tone of your voice and facial expressions are way more important.
You may include swear or slang words in your phrases.
Like: “I love the things you do with your tongue” “You are the sexiest thing I’ve ever seen!
” “I want you” In the end the words are just ways of connecting with one another.
The sound can be commanding, harsh, sweet, submissive, uncertain and everything in between. Experiment with what feels good to you (and to the one receiving, by watching their response).
If you are physically engaging with your partner while you are talkin’ dirty make sure your body reflects your words. Please don’t use words that make you (or your partner) uncomfortable; work your way up if you both want to.
Plus your partner won’t be able to stop thinking about you, when you send him a naughty SMS while he is at work. So, you would like to engage more but you are a little shy and afraid.