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–Here’s the deal, guys: You can read all the dating and relationship advice you can find – and there’s a lot of good stuff out there – but there’s just one key piece of advice I have to share. So here is a quick history of how I met and was asked out by some of the fellas in my past and whether it worked or whether it failed. We dated for eight months and split up on good terms. He was just too late.–Ivan: Another guy I met in the store I worked at, Ivan is the guy I married.
What really makes these strategies a mistake is that by using them you are reinforcing the belief that you need some sneaky trick here.
It’s a lot more empowering to believe that you can just ask for her number like a man.
She’ll give it to you because she wants to, not because you tricked her.
Getting a woman’s e-mail address or Facebook is not nearly as solid as getting her phone number, and I have a really hard time understanding why a guy would ever do this on purpose. I mean, a chick would really have to dislike you not to give you her Facebook address. If a woman doesn’t want to date you and doesn’t want to give you her phone number then why should you be wasting your time chatting with her on the Internet?
Special wordings you can use to supposedly improve the chances that a girl will give you her number.
For instance here’s a well-known trick: start to walk away, and then turn back and say, “Hey before I go I should get your number…” Now a technique like this won’t necessarily get you rejected, but it’s just an unnecessary waste of time.
So as a rule you should ask for her number the first time you meet her so she’ll know right off that you are interested and have the guts to go for it.
Just as you don’t want to wait too long to ask a girl for her number, it is also important to take a couple of minutes to chat with her before attempting to get the digits.
After all, if you goof up and she won’t give you her number, then it is going to be pretty tough to get together with her later on.
So in today’s article I’ll be looking at five common mistakes guys make when they ask for a girl’s number, and how to avoid them.
It can take a little work but it makes all the difference in the world.