(This woman is voicing her opinion and shows her personality early on. )) You: Honest, mature, gentleman, emotionally, mentally, financially secure (“financially secure” is a bad move in a dating profile because it’s an immediate red flag to a guy that he might be dealing with a materialistic woman.) Knows how to treat a lady, ready for a long term relationship (this would sound a bit too eager or even desperate to most guys. I live on the East Coast and travel to West every week for work. (This would make the reader believe that she is not looking for anyone special, but just someone to kill time with and subdue her loneliness).
Just don't do it." You may love Mittens, but potential partners do not. Don't ask me why, but it's what men react to." Schreffler says. For example, if you have just selfies of your head, a guy will nine times out of 10 not write to you because he's wondering why you haven't shown off your body." The Dating Profile Golden Rule "Stay true to who you are.
If you create a dating profile based on a woman that you think a man would like, you're never going to find the man that's right for you," Schreffler says.
You'll want to write a profile that represents you and what you're looking for.
To help, we've compiled a few online dating profile examples and enlisted the help of relationship experts Laura Schreffler and Craig Donaldson to get you on your way to writing the perfect online dating profile for you.
It’s eloquently written, it’s concise, straight and to the point!
It is free of fluff and very compelling for a guy who can appreciate this type of no-nonsense attitude in a person: “I don’t like most guys, but… Timeless books and movies that make you wonder for days about whose side you are on put great flavor into many of my evenings. What are you greatest pet-peeves and what makes you weak in your knees from joy and happiness.” Profile #4: Grade A This last profile below gets the highest great for both the content and the creativity. What I particularly like about this profile is that it shows that a woman hasn’t lost faith in true love and romance but at the same time she is also realistic."Men are visual," Donaldson says, "So if you don't appeal to their sense of beauty, they will not write to you." He recommends one or two photos minimum but never more than four.Schreffler stresses the importance of content: "Great dating profiles do not have shots of women with their cats."When I was writing my book, I created many dating profiles.I was the cool girl, the funny girl, the sexy girl, the shy girl.I am not interested in most guys and besides perhaps that what makes those few unique individuals that I do connect with all more special. The ending of it might sound a bit on a more desperate side, but all in all – maybe it’s not such a terrible thing to sound a bit desperate for love and connection if that’s how you really feel.