If he asks then I tell him, “you let me know when we’re exclusive and I’ll take it down”.
Below we pit two of the Australian online dating heavy weights against each other.
I’ve been dating a guy online for a month, and he brought up the idea of being exclusive, to which I agreed.
At what point should I take down my dating profile?
You don’t have to do anything other than what he does, which keeps your job VERY simple and crystal clear.
If he’s not doing what you want him to do, rest assured, he’s doing what HE wants to do.
If he doesn’t take his down, would that mean that he is trying to keep his options open?
I know in your e Book “Why He Disappeared” you talk about mirroring his actions–ifhe calls, answer; if he sets up a date, say yes—so if he keeps his profile up, I should keep mine up too?
Given the ease in which I created my profiles I would imagine it would not be difficult for a scammer to set-up theirs so one should keep their guard up as this is par for the course on free dating sites.
In oasis actives credit they have designed the site to minimize this risk as best as possible.
I was thinking of giving it a few weeks and if it doesn’t come up, to say something along the lines of “Since we’re exclusive now does that mean I should take my profile down?
” versus “I’ve noticed you still have your profile up, are you dating other people?
Oasis Active is certainly one of the better free dating sites; it is a relatively new design, easy and fast to get started and quite simple to navigate.