When you embark with online dating, you shouldn’t just expect rejection—you must embrace it and become its friend.
It wasn’t the most interesting thing on her profile—that’d be quite sad. You may have similar interested, a compatible personality—you could be everything they are looking for, however even that may not be enough for some people.
But, it was something I found she had an emotional attachment and connection to that would be a great conversation starter. My advice: It’s not worth worrying or caring about. Never put your eggs in one basket, expecting a response from the person who seems like a perfect match for you.
This stark increase in interest occurs in both genders, but it is even more prevalent in men. I’m not sharing this story to bash those who are attracted to money or call them out as gold diggers; the point I’m stressing is that your profile shouldn’t include components that will attract the wrong crowd.
During my early days into the world of online dating, I did an experiment. That’s like having a hole in your pocket which continues to leak money right to your door step.
The fact of the matter is that women receive far too much “unwanted” attention.
While it does require less effort for women to get responses from the opposite sex, they’re not really in the best position, as they have to dig through a lot of junk before they find any substance.
But with so many factors coming into play with modern dating, it’s no wonder why so many girls (and guys to be fair) find it difficult to meet someone and settle down.
I’ve been single for a while now, mostly because I’ve chosen to be this way, partly because I’ve not met the right guy just yet.
Headlines are just as important as the content in your message.
Everyone jumps the gun, telling you to personalize each message you send.
According to research, women who send messages to men are twice as likely to receive a response compared to men who start conversations.