Most of the time it's because they are shy, scared, have some other issue that keeps them from just walking up to a woman and teasing her into a conversation. If you fail, refuse or falsely ID yourself, you can be arrested. Avoid places with indiscreet entrances or indiscreet parking.
Also, locking the front door is usually a violation (city codes normally require doors to be unlocked while a business is open). If you don't try to hide anything, but you can still be discreet about it, you don't raise the suspicion. By "discreet", I mean don't walk into your place with a smile brighter than the sun, don't smell like you've been to a New Orleans cat house, etc. Although you can sometimes solve the parking problem by parking down the street and walking in.
Had a great session, came home and girlfriend asked why I have glitter all over my face! 8) Hobby Phone 9) Do not be a douche to the ladies, respect will be rewarded 10 fold 10) Did I say Hobby Phone All my browsers are in privacy mode. Keep some unscented baby wipes in your car, preferably hidden somewhere. Then, before going back home...spray enough to mask the scent, enough for you to get past the door, your wife, kids (optional), or whoever you are trying to avoid, and into the shower. The only thing I actually WISH I'd known beforehand..that some of the oils the girls use smell more strongly than Satan's gaseous releases, and cling to your skin like flies to fecal matter.
Meaning history and cookies are deleted after closing the browsers. This way you can give yourself a bath of sorts before going home.
@topandbottom - if you are retired is 1/4 mile away. All the comments about unscented products and taking a shower afterwards apply.
I like the idea of always taking a shower when you get home. I learned a few things that I will put to use immediately.
Get a smart phone, since you can do calls, text messages and web browsing all in one without having to pay for a separate data plan. Always in Private Mode (Chrome is best, I hear Firefox has it now). 4) I always shower AFTER contact in the establishment. Obviously, to charge your visit tells your S/O where you've been. My suggestions which are probably listed here: use cash, have a separate phone, preferably with a different carrier than your family, and don't let the bills go to your house or main email. Change of clothes or ability to take a shower is almost a must, unless you find a place where there is no scented or oil or perfume from the provider.
The 'minutes' can be used for anything just mentioned and they last for 3 or 4 months. I have been considering even bringing my own bar of soap, because the soaps provided are usually too smelly.
I don't change my domestic schedules, I always leave and arrive at the same time.
I hobby during the day, or the times I'm regularly out.
Small, but very valuable steps, like using cash only, in order to not leave a paper trail, or wear a certain type of clothing to conceal yourself, etc, etc. I can't believe so many became members by giving their personal details! You can opt to not get statements mailed or emailed.