The only thing you need to be careful about is to not freak out when you find out. I know it’s painful but you have to deal with the pain without making a fool of yourself.
In fact, if you ever see both of them together, you should act cool.
And I’ve been helping people with breakups for the past two years.
Somehow, people think that girls like guys begging to be with them. I knew this guy who was ready to leave his job, his career, and move to another city and join college just to be with his ex. Moreover, you are showing to her, that your life, your career, your ambition and your values mean nothing in front of her.
As romantic as it may sound, it’s actually quite the opposite. If she left you for the reason that “you don’t love her anymore”, then you can rest assured that bombarding her with “i love you texts” will not convince her.
You just have to understand that no good can come from calling your ex. Trying to get her to call you back, or just constantly asking what she is doing is only going to make you look desperate in her eyes. If you were, and you had done some terrible mistake, you could’ve begged for her forgiveness. If she has already decided to leave you, then begging will not change her mind.
I don’t know why, but it’s the most common advice that people give to guys who want their ex girlfriend back. Girls actually hate guys who beg them to be with them. In fact, it’s only going to make her think that her decision to leave you was the right one. In fact, she told him that “you are not right for me, and I want to find someone else who is more suitable for me.” If you are agreeing to everything your ex says, then you are just showing how much desperate you are to be with her.
To make it easy I have divided this guide into four steps.
Each step is crucial and you must go through each step and be confident enough before moving on to the next one. You have to man up and go through the pain and emotions and work to get her back. But you will have to face your fears, your pain, your emotions, your jealousy, your guilt, your anger, and everything else you will feel during this process.
OK, all that might have been a little harsh, but it is the truth. One of the reasons girls leave is because somewhere along the lines, their boyfriends stop being a man for them. I know it might not necessarily be your case and we will go through the reasons in step 3.
Right now, just understand that everything will not be over in a second and you will have to work and possibly go through a lot of pain to get her back.
Simply because it’s not going to help you in anyway. I know how much it hurts to imagine her in someone else’s arms, but that’s life. When my girlfriend started dating someone after the breakup, it felt like someone stabbed me in the heart.
There is a time to say all those things but it’s not now. But, in the end, the relationship ended and we got back together.
It’s not attractive and to be honest, after a while it becomes very irritating for your ex.