Meanwhile Fashion Designer, Doll had known that she was polygamous since high school.
She explains: 'I had always dated girls - who although they had boyfriends or girlfriends - were also allowed to date me.
It may be the next level of your relationship, something that strengthens and fortifies your bond. When we find that “golden ratio,” that collection of circumstances that place us in something finally working, we get scared. But change is nature, and change is inevitable, and the healthiest LTRs happen between people who see the evolution of their partners as beautiful stories to witness. You might not like them after some changes; they might not like you.
This is a common story in the world of whips and paddles.
I don’t know how kinky you guys are, but if the above scenario sounds like something you could play out, consider exploring your kinks with a skilled third. You have a tried because you connect with a third guy — not because you think triads are sexy.
'Having both enjoyed polygamous relationships before, Doll and Brynn looked for a third woman to join them.
After a few failed liaisons, Doll and Brynn created an OKCupid couple's profile. Fashion Manager, Kitten says: 'My second boyfriend and I had been together for several years but a few months before our wedding, he called the whole thing off without explanation.
Because your sir is potentially training a handful of boys/slaves/subs, there’s less focus on ownership or possession, which allows you enjoy each other and take it slow.
Things get more serious, and suddenly you’re in a d/s triad.
You can’t expect him to enjoy the same things or interact the same way with your partner as he does with you — you’re different people. Doing this makes the transition to the question “Should we all just date? Your communication skills seem solid if you’re having these talks, but your ability to talk about uncomfortable feelings and fears will be put the test.
Get accustomed to “checking in” regularly to make sure you both like where this is going.
Your boyfriend is cool with that, but he isn’t turned on at the idea of tying you up, using you, etc. You find someone you really click with and have regular sessions with him for a few months. Sure, your BF may not be into submission, but he discovers that he likes to watch.